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The Last Books We Read

Taynement 

The Woman Next Door by Yewande Omotosho

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I requested this book at my library just to make sure I was the first to get it once it was released. No reason other than the Nigerian name and accolades it was getting. Per usual, I had no idea what it was about. I finally got it and I did not finish it in the allotted library time (21 days). Not a good sign because that is more than enough time to finish a book. I joined a wait list and requested it again and still struggled with getting through with it. And that pretty much sums up my reading experience.

The book details the story of two elderly women who are neighbors, Hortensia James who is black and Marion Agostino who is white. They both reside in post-apartheid Cape Town, South Africa. Both hardened by life and its experiences and also recently widowed, the woman hate each other and make no efforts to hide it. Something happens that force the women to live together and we get to see them open up to each other as best as they can and give a little insight as to why they are so bitter.

I read so many favorable comments about this book, I was determined to experience it for myself but it just never happened. I couldn’t bring myself to care about the characters. The second half of the book got a little spark and some quotables (I love a good quote) but I really didn’t feel sorry for them as characters, which I usually do whenever the subject is about older people. I think the writing had potential but I just wasn’t feeling the subject matter. Overall, I found the book bland, monotone and in desperate need of keeping me interested.

 

Leggy

The Mother of Black Hollywood by Jenifer Lewis

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I did this book on audio because it’s Jenifer “motherfucking” Lewis and I figured hearing her narrate her own life would be fun and entertaining and it was. I enjoyed listening to this book but overall, I was underwhelmed. Jenifer is pretty outspoken about her bipolar disorder and about the fact that she is on medication to control it. She has also been with the same therapist for 17 years and the way she talked about therapy made me want to book a session. I think that she’s doing a lot for mental health education particularly in the black community and this book is a testament to that.

Jenifer talks about her childhood, growing up poor and her relationship with her mother. She talks about being molested as a teenager, being almost raped as an adult and her tumultuous relationships with men and sex. There’s a lot to unpack in this book but I felt like it could have been better arranged, a lot of it jumped around and sometimes, I found it hard to follow the exact timeline. She name drops a shit ton of people in this book and at some point it’s like “ma’am, stop littering and pick up all those names”

She is one of the few Hollywood minorities that have had quite a consistent string of jobs, she booked her first Broadway show just weeks after moving to New York after graduation and has continued to book jobs till now. For fans of Black-ish, she talks about how much fun it is to work on that set and how she got that job without an audition. She has been in the industry for a long time and she has still had to audition for almost every other job she’s had in Hollywood.

Overall, I enjoyed this book even though it was a tad bit underwhelming due to my high expectations. If you decide to get this one, get it on audio. Also, save your audible credit and get it from your library. I gave this 3 stars on my Goodreads.

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Welcome!

Taynement: Hi, My name is Taynement.

Leggy: And I’m Leggy.

Taynement: – So…Leggy and I spend a huge amount of time chatting shit. But a portion of that time is devoted to us bitching or praising or recommending one book or the other to each other.

Leggy: And I think our entire friendship was built on bashing books…and gossiping but mostly books.

Taynement: Ha ha. True. Anyways, a good number of people also enjoy reading. So we decided to start a blog to invite a few more people into our conversations and have more view points and recommendations.

Leggy: So this is an introduction to our reading lives and our sincere opinion on all things books. We understand that art is very subjective so we hope this becomes a thriving community filled with different opinions and conversations about books and reading. Enjoy!

Taynement

My first memory of books was this mini library my mom had in her room in the form of a bookshelf. It was white with sliding glass doors. I remember not being allowed to read certain books – which of course, as a curious child,  I made sure I read (granted, i didn’t understand what I was reading. I mean, why was a woman excited to be spanked??)

I stuck to more age appropriate books and devoured the Sweet Valley Highs and Enid Blyton classics like most Nigerian kids. It was fun. This was how I discovered how books had the ability to take me to a different place. It made me want to be in different locations and dream beyond my little corner of the world in Nigeria. Books also helped me expand my vocabulary and back then when there was use for them, my dictionary was heavily utilized.

As I have grown older, reading for pleasure is a habit that I still have. At any given time, I am sure to have a book on hand. And yes, I am one of those who has moved strictly to ebook reading. Holding a physical book just feels weird to me now. I still enjoy being transported. I still enjoy learning. I still enjoy living through characters that live completely different lives from me.

I hope to share this love of books with whoever reads this blog. Both book lovers and dabblers alike. Hopefully you find something that catches your fancy and we can chat about it.

Happy Reading!!
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Leggy

I don’t remember the first book I ever read or the first time I started reading. In all my earliest memories, I already had a book in my hands. I come from a family of readers from my mother to all my siblings, we are all avid readers and have always been. Growing up I read so many grown up books that probably were not age appropriate.

I read Shakespeare and Animal Farm waaaay too young. I remember reading an erotica novel at like 9 but I only just realized it was an erotica novel looking back because then I thought it was just a romance novel, I went through a mills and boon phase, did the Sweet Valley High and Babysitters Club circuit, I loved the Pacesetters books, hated the R. L. Stine books then moved on to literary fiction. I think non fiction became an add-on of wanting to be grown in my rotation.

So obviously, reading is and has always been an intricate part of my life.

This website is the extension of my love for book discussions. I can talk books for hours especially if I hate said books and I hate soooo many books. Taynement and I have built a friendship off of talking about books and we are hoping to share that love with everybody who decides to stop by.

I hope you are willing to dive into this journey with us and that this grows to be a community of lovers of all kinds of literature. Welcome to Two Nightstands!!

 

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